My problem is…. I’m a really nice guy. Really, I’m reasonably nice, just ask anyone who knows me….
Actually it’s more I’m not as smart as I’d like to think I am. You see, often I don’t do people any favours by trying at all costs to be, Mr Nice Guy. Even if it’s at the expense of helping them grow. The interesting thing is that I usually get what I give, and that is, people are generally very nice to me. Even if what I need on occassions, is some home truths to help me grow.
What I really need is tough love.
Turns out my team also need some tough love too.
Tough Love – Startup blog definition:
Having a team let each other know ‘in no uncertain terms’ when members are goofing off, at the expense of agreed upon and shared objectives.
It doesn’t mean we turn into nightmare colleagues or the boss we always hated.
It means that we have a culture where we don’t want to let each other down, but we pull each other up in tough times and provide mutual motivation. We give each other guidance when we need it.
Photo by Chuck Rogers
Words by Steve – rentoid.com